Welcome lawbot!
Zuko, it's not near either.. If you go down the blue road You'll eventually see a big cobble sign saying SHOP, and a lot of water, further down the road (like 10 blocks) there is ice to walk on, go past the shop sign and continue about 500-700 blocks, on the way there is a shack, another ice section, a failed farm(the water to push watever drops they where gonna get froze lol), then a sandstone wall, keep going and my house is the big wooden mansion covered in vines
To get to the skelly farm there is a small island with a small hut past my reed farm.. Follow the mossy cobble to get to the grinder... I suggest some splash health potions to quickly dispatch the skeletons
If you have trouble locating it try following my directions on the dynamic map and then using that to find a easier path, if you still cannot locate it I will /mail you the exact coords when I log in next(remind me if you get on first) if your on when I'm on then I will personally escort you